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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You set the example in how you treat others and how you treat them. We prioritize people who prioritize us.[/quote] This is kind of hog wash. You don't really know how things are going to turn out once you let your kids go and there are good parents who end up seeing their kids and the kids' family less. It's very immature to be so focused on fairness in a relationship like this. It's a red flag. You try to stay in contact and try to stay in their lives but they decide how much. [/quote] NP. Are you the type who expects your adult child to call, and you somehow never call them? The phone rings both ways. Are you the type who expects your adult child to visit you—no matter work schedules and small kids, but you won’t make the effort to visit? When you are asked to visit or babysit, are you way too busy—but you expect us to drop everything when you need help? That’s what PP means.[/quote]
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