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Reply to "What does it mean if I'm tempted to do something extreme to try to get dh to pay attention?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I don’t recommend something drastic. I was hospitalized 3x because of a medical condition literally triggered by the stress of keeping my household afloat with an indifferent DH. Both me and the doctors had separate conversations with him and he was read the riot act. It didn’t have any impact on him and he continued to live the same way as he always has. Before those medical incidents I remember thinking “something needs to happen to get him to understand what a big deal this is”. Deep down I knew that was futile, which is why I didn’t do something deliberately. Now I can’t leave because I need his health insurance coverage, network and additional income to survive this medical condition. So in my experience, by the time you are considering or hoping for something drastic, you have already subconsciously accepted that it wouldn’t make a difference. [/quote]
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