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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a coffee date with one guy 2 weeks ago and a video call with another around same time. Not bad intros, but hard to say if I was particular interested, and I rarely feel anything on date 1 for anyone. It takes me 2-3 dates to see if there is chemistry.

The guys didn't text right after, but both followed up in 2 weeks. One just texted apologizing that he was busy, and asked how I was doing. The other is inviting for an exhibit this weekend  (he's got tickets).

Would you respond to a guy if he didn't follow the "2 days" rule and didn't ask out right away? [/quote]

I'd say 3 days. But if there's no connection within 3 days, I'd say this is not a potential life partner.

Two weeks is a booty call.[/quote]

Immature thinking. How old are you?

People have work, work travel, other obligations. Two weeks can go by in a flash at times for people who are busy and engaged with other parts of their lives besides dating. Three days is a deadline based 100 percent on...nothing at all. As for booty calls, if OP didn't have sex on the first date, why would men think that a second date two weeks later is magically going to end up in bed? I'd say the opposite, that a call two weeks later is likelier a real indicator of interest--they've been thinking about her and haven't just dropped the ball-- and the three-day call is the shallow, thirsty "I just can't WAIT any longer" booty call.[/quote]

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