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Reply to "If you married a former serial cheater who cheated on everyone but you?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Marriage to a cheater (whether he cheated on you or someone else in the past) is a different marriage. You become more accepting that your marriage can end anytime and are prepared and less fearful of a potential fallout. You enjoy it for the moment rather than as a forever proposition. If you're smart, you have a prenup or postnup and you have a good sense of the position you'll be in if you need to leave because of cheating. The more money that is at risk swinging in your favor in a divorce, the better you'll feel. Having this perspective also gives you more power in your marriage. You are less threatened by other women, because, if he really wants them that badly, fine. You've had some nice years together and that's enough. If there are kids involved, you've had a lot of time to prepare for how you want to handle it because you're married to a known cheater. [/quote]
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