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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't have any personal anecdotes, but I believe people can change.  Sometimes bad marriages bring out the worst in people.   I refuse to believe that repentance in whatever form you take it can't work or that we are nothing more than our past mistakes.  [/quote]

I agree with all this and I still would not marry a former serial cheater because I think he'd probably cheat on me like he did everyone else. I believe in redemption but I'm not in charge of being anyone's redemption. They can go find a woman who was a serial cheater and they can redeem themselves together.[/quote]

That's probably true.  I dated someone who openly admitted his marriage failed because he cheated.  The woman he cheated with was a part of their community and it blew up on him in a horrible way in his community and with his kids.  He also admitted to another fling.  But, again, he expressed full responsibility, guilt, and expressed a strong desire to move forward and wanted to be married again someday.  I moved on because he was too old for me and had kids, but he ended up marrying someone else my age.  They've now been married over 10 years and I believe he's fully committed to her.  I guess it's all talk because I did break it off with him back then, but he was a really good boyfriend to me and I hope they're happy. [/quote]

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