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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Only OP can answer this question.

How much do you want kids or are you on the fence? If you are on the fence, stay there until you want to get off on one side or the other.

Yes, there are good outcomes after pregnancy with people bouncing right back, but there is a very real possibility that you will have changes to your body that are permanent. I have an umbilical hernia from my pregnancy that I will have to repair are some time. My core function is comprised at this time.

But your question it misses the mark. Caring for another human being will age you. You will worry about them. Ask some of the moms on the special needs forum if their looks have changed. Don't have kids until you can make peace with this.
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This. I have a child with special needs and it’s exhausting.  You need to accept that you may not have the perfect kid and your life will completely upend itself.  I’m looking at life time care and it’s scary AF.  I’ve aged and every so often look in the mirror and think I look terrible,  but I have bigger concerns than my face [/quote]

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