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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This doesn't read like a real post.  But for anyone contemplating getting back with a cheater: don't do it.  It's not just that the person is fundamentally dishonest. It's that they often Enjoy the dupe. That is, they get off not on the "relationship" or interaction with the AP, but on the fact that they are duping you and the AP. That they are getting their cake and eating it too.  People are fungible to them.  They just need someone at home to do their laundry while they get to go out and bag their next doe-eyed conquest.  That's what you're signing yourself up for if you take him back.  [/quote]

New poster and I semi agree, but will add one caveat that this is mostly true if you had ZERO idea they were cheating. If there were no signs, they were just rolling through life having their cake and eating it too then I largely agree with this. If the cheater was severely depressed, lashing out, self deprecating, suicidal, there's a better chance the guilt was eating them up and they can change with the work.[/quote]

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