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[quote=Anonymous]Earliest years were a little tough because husband’s money baggage appeared. People on this board seem to think everything about a person is evident before you get married. It’s simply untrue. People mask. New situations bring out hidden behavior or beliefs. It was VERY hard when we had little kids and both of us were climbing career ladders. I became the default parent in every way and it was exhausting and frankly unfair. My kids needed a hands on parent and he should have helped shoulder more of the responsibilities but he was dealing with his own stuff. Throughout the marriage we’ve had to deal with his dysfunctional family but thankfully he is now expert at setting up healthy boundaries. Therapy has really helped us manage these “lows” and build better skills. [/quote]
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