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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

Thank you all for the thoughts.  I really like PP's wording.  As for am I proud of her?  I definitely was initially because I know she's been struggling with self esteem issues caused by her weight.  But she's bordering on orthorexia at this point.   It started off being a very whole diet, no sugars, no simple carbs, no alcohol, etc.  Which was much easier to accommodate.  Now she's venturing into more of a body builder's diet during prep time.   So it isn't necessarily an unhealthy diet, but it has become so restrictive that its bordering on disordered (which I tried to bring up as I dealt with an eating disorder for over a decade and that did not go well).

As for what she would like the vacation to look like, we've asked her.  Basically it involves no going out to restaurants and making meals at home.  Which, none of us want.  We cook enough in our normal lives that part of what we enjoy on this getaway is NOT having to cook.  And in order to do this, we'd have to get some place that had a kitchen where we could cook.  But she also needs to have a gym to work out (actually most of us enjoy using the hotel gym on this trip). It would  also limit us more on where we can go if we need to find an air BNB that is on the beach in the setting we want.   [/quote]

Oh fück no. Cooking at home?  Drop her like a hot potato. Life is too short for that madness. [/quote]

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