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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you have the money and you are going to enjoy the show, why wouldn’t you pay? Why does he need to pay all the time?

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OP here: my approach is that the asker pays during dating. Same with my friends and family. I find it a huge turn off each paying own way, Venmo costs etc. particular since both of us can easily afford the costs.

If in a committed relationship I don’t mind splitting all costs pro-rata incomes.

[b]He might be dating younger women and paying for them, I won’t be the one who splits the check that early on. We’ve only seeing each other 3 weeks; had sex already so  not playing him. But he’s on OLD obviously chatting with other women. I’m not going out with other guys after we slept but I didn’t tell him. Just don’t want to.[/b]

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Don't want to because he meets your needs or what? Why be, effectively, exclusive with him on your side, when you know he's likely screwing other women at the same time?This isn't just about who pays for what. You seem to want the sex and [i]also[/i] the traditional dating setup, but now that he's had the former, he shows zero interest in the latter. The fact you posted about the lack of romantic interest yet also think he should be paying for dates seems a bit contradictory. He's not truly dating you, so he's not even thinking of paying for dates; he knows he can have sex with you again, or thinks he can, so he's got no interest in dating or wooing you, OP. But you seem to want both things. Not sure why you went to bed so fast or why you're sticking around now. 
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It did seem to me that we had a deep connection and I was feeling romantic at time sex happened. Until a few days ago when the text about drinks costs came in. He says he wants to be exclusive and is falling into me. I don’t trust him I guess, due to a combination of all these. [/quote]

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