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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I prefer to email people directly. "On January 6th, I told my friend Nancy that I think you look fat in that dress. Do you forgive me?"[/quote] The question of [i]lashon hara[/i] (malicious gossip/speech) where it's unlikely to ever get back to the person is always so interesting to me. Like, if I own up to it and apologize for it, then I'm actually hurting the person, whereas before they were unaware of it. Is it better to cause them pain/embarrassment in order to seek their forgiveness? Or to let it go and just ask forgiveness of God for all of our bad speech? "Fun" fact - gossip/malicious speech are the most common sins we recount in the Al Het confessional. There are so many easy ways to sin through speech.[/quote]
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