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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] c.) really inappropriate to her husband and kids[/quote]

Most people understand that their spouses had relationships before they came along that were important to them. This is not at all disrespectful for him to attend.[/quote]

So, while you are in the depths of grief, burying your DH, being comforted by your immediate family, you have no problem looking over your shoulder and seeing his cheating ex scarfing down ham biscuits and chardonnay?[/quote]

NP. My husband is part of a tight-knit college friend group where many people dated on and off. Two of his ex-girlfriends came to our wedding, as did one of my ex-boyfriends who was in my college friend group.

College friend groups are a thing. Dating in college friend groups is a thing. Get over it. I would welcome anyone from my husband's college friend group at the funeral and visitation, including his two ex-girlfriends. That's all ancient history. They're all married with kids now. I would be glad to see them all, and I would recognize that they carry grief, too, and that seeing each other at the funeral and being able to reunite and reminisce would help with their grief.

This is how mature people experience the world, by the way: recognizing that everyone has a past and connections beyond the marital relationship.[/quote]

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