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[quote=Anonymous]When I was 48, I found out that my college girlfriend died. I hadn't seen her in 25 years and we lived 100s of miles apart. I didn't go to her funeral, but I feel like I can relate quite a bit with your DH. I remember having some pretty intense feelings at the time. It was a little bit about her specifically, I guess. But some of it felt like I was losing a bit of my younger self if that makes any sense. She was one of the most important factors in my life for a stretch of my early 20s. Maybe it was a bit of a mid-life crisis; contributing to feelings of mortality. Anyway, I can definitely sympathize if your DH is going through some shit. And if he wants to go to a funeral, I wouldn't chalk it up to nefarious or frivolous purposes. (Although, if he also wanted to throw a few drinks back with some old friends and talk about the old times, that wouldn't be the worst thing in the world.) [/quote]
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