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[quote=Anonymous]Your post reminded me of the "four horsemen of the Apocalypse of marriage" from the Gottman Institute: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Especially contempt: "Most importantly, contempt is the single greatest predictor of divorce. It must be eliminated." "The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse is a metaphor depicting the end of times in the New Testament. They describe conquest, war, hunger, and death respectively. We use this metaphor to describe communication styles that, according to our research, can predict the end of a relationship." https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/[/quote]
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