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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here; I didn’t think it would matter but some of you have the genders reversed; my wife is the one who had the 12-15 month emotional affair. Any change to the advice? [/quote] If you’re the guy on the Wife Seduction thread — Your wife is pretty checked out of the marriage. Either she is angry at you or she doesn’t feel her needs are being met at all. Why do you think she had an affair after you had one? Is that like revenge? Or has your marriage just been going downhill for a long time? Either way, you need to take it one step at a time. The counseling at this point is diagnostic. What is wrong with the marriage? You need to have help to get clear on that. It’s too early to tell if you can repair or not. But this state of things is not healthy. You know that.[/quote]
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