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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you an academic? Because you’ve just described a pretty common scenario is academic hiring. It is gross and inappropriate and unfortunately way too typical.[/quote]

Yes, it would be academic (coming from govt contracting).  I thought this (state) university, being as liberal as it is, would not have tolerance for this. [/quote]

OP slow your roll. It’s fine that you disliked his approach, but it’s a totally different organizational culture. He did *nothing* to suggest he wanted an improper relationship with you - not unless you left something major out. Just turn down the job and move on. [/quote]

He did. When he was driving me back to my hotel at one point, he brought up undergrads having sex in the building.  My experience, as a woman being hit on by creepy men with no game, is that they’ll bring up sex as a way to open the door.  When he dropped me off at my hotel at the end of the visit, and was parked outside in the dark, with just the two of us in the car, he offered me the job and said something that made me think he was open to more.

I was trying to not be DCUM click bait by providing all of the details. [/quote]

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