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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand why you are upset.

I'm not sure why you are worried about being home alone and your mother finding out.  You lock all the doors and if your mother shows up unannounced, you do not open the door or let her in.  You need a peephole or a window by the door so you can see outside.  If it's her, you talk through the door or through a window.  If it is a townhome or a SFH, you can go to the second floor and open the window and tell her to leave.  You do not allow her to come in and you do not allow her to talk to you.  If she will not leave, then explain that you will be calling 911 and tell them that there is a trespasser trying to break into your house.  If this is an apartment or condo, then explain that through the door without opening.[/quote]

Nope, you lock the doors, turn off the downstairs lights and go to your bedroom to watch TV or read. You do not, do not, do not engage the person by talking through a window or picking up the phone if they call, or anything at all. This is true not just in OP's situation (IF it happens) but for anyone who does not want contact. You either leave entirely and go to a hotel or you lock up tight, make it look as if you're not home, and never engage verbally like PP suggests. If you're afraid of actual harm, call the cops if you want -- though in most places they won't be able to do anything, unless you have an actual restraining order you can say is being violated by the person at your doorstep. [/quote]

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