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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah, that's a huge problem, that his response was simply that he had plans (and it didn't mention those plans were with his freaking wife and kids).

But you [b]looking at his phone is a huge problem too[/b].

But you know all of this, right?[/quote]

[b]It's really not. they are married, it's ok to look at spouse's phone.[/b]

Keep your wide eyes open and you should ask him why he didn't mention you to the woman who asked him out.[/quote]

Absolutely not. That's a violation of trust. No one should be snooping into anyone's phone behind their back. My DH would never do this, nor would I. [/quote]

And you'll be divorced inside 3 years. Because clearly you both have trust issues, and/or something to hide.

I'm gay, and my wife and I know each other's phone and laptop codes, use each other's phones interchangeably -- we just grab whichever is closest. Because why would there be anything on there I didn't want her to see? (Full disclosure -- we also don't do gifts or surprises of any kind.)

I can't imagine telling her "I'm changing my phone code and I'm not telling you what it is." That would be completely bizarre to both of us.

That said, I have also archived messages I meant to delete, OP. I don't consciously archive anything because I'm not the POTUS who has to preserve documents for history, but I'm sure there are hundreds archived for posterity anyway. I expect historians will be thrilled to uncover my plans to meet Carol for lunch next Tuesday.[/quote]

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