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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thank you all for your kindness and advice. I don’t have close friends so it means a lot to be able to get advice from DCUM. Your kindness made me cry. I have felt so alone. I’ll let you know how it goes.[/quote]

OP, my marriage has some of this dynamic. In hindsight I wish I had left early on, but like you, here I am.

I think what finally happened for me (also in a move situation) is I just hit a wall. I had a lot of other issues going on but I realized my husband wanted what he wanted and full speed ahead without regard to the reality that the kids or I were dealing with. Somewhere deep down I knew if I gave into that move that something bad was going to happen mental health wise.

I agree 100% that all you should do for now is not agree to the move and then also refuse to engage on it. I know all too well the pit in your stomach when you are walking on eggshells with someone who wants to scream you into submission. Leave the house for the night if you need to, but this is the time to stand up for yourself. Strength to you.[/quote]

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