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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would act like it’s someone you just met but have no interest in getting to know. Polite, vague, fake smile, totally uninvested, classy, keep it short, move away. Do not answer a single question you don’t want to answer. Use vague responses like “oh, you know!” Make sure they see you as confident and happy and not caring about them at all. If you can scope out the seating chart when you arrive, if you’re at the same table, sit as far from them as possible. If you’re stuck next to them, spend as little time actually sitting down as possible. Get your hair done before the wedding. Feel confident. She’s a gossipy jerk and you’re v better without them. [/quote]

My friend went through this with a neighbor claiming my friend is so negative (among other false statements) - my friend is the funniest person I know, and not at all what anyone could construe as negative.  Gossips gonna gossip, OP. Be confident and move on - you owe her nothing.  Is it possible the gossip is jealous of you, or mad that you have her number, so to speak? Either or both seem likely.  Bad people, with malicious intent, don't like being found out. [/quote]

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