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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most women are controlling... men must...

clean kitchen including wipe stove, sweep, wipe all counters, nothing soaking or they are children
put kids to bed exactly how she does
do morning routine exactly how she does. 
when she goes out she comes home and immediately does a full analysis of what food was fed to the kids, homework checks, bedtime checks and they yells at husband because spelling words still need to be done (call the presses)

I can't even imagine how men deal with these women and pay all the bills and support their "hobbies". WTF... why did you ever let it get this bad.

You let her become a child and now she is acting like a child. Get a job!

Sure she will get 1/2 but you say get therapy for your anxiety or GTFO.

Come on man![/quote]

You have anger issues. Morning and evening routine should be a routine. Any grown ass man can come up with a plan together with his wife if he helps out with this and isn't traveling. Sorry you can't.
I don't know about the cleaning stuff. That is family specific on chores, but what you mentioned isn't over the top for a family to divide as work. There are a hundred other tasks to do in a household. Places should be left clean without crumbs. OP mentioned zero about chores. Your projection. Is the spelling test tomorrow and you already said you'd help out with spelling and your kid is dyslexic? I don't know the agreement you have. I kind of remember a parent doing this with me when I was in 1st-3rd grade. It took about 15 minutes.
Many men demand their woman have the same political beliefs and are much more controlling in this arena. I find political beliefs to be personal and this to me is an annoyance that I'd have with a spouse either direction because they are part of your person and not someone else's to copy. So OP has a wife that is overly political. Maybe that is something she needs to work on why this is being brought into the house at all? I think this is a legitimate concern of being over controlling. 
As for the kid, it's probably better if OP sides with the mom and then these things will stop happening more. The kid will realize the parents are on the same side. Maybe this is related to the political beliefs. OP is trying to use it against her because he's annoyed about the political control? Not sure. But usually two parents should be on the same side with parenting which is much more important than a political agreement.[/quote]

NP. You just proved pp’s point by saying that OP should kowtow to his wife to keep the peace. (You also sound angry too.) [/quote]

Not at OP but at this guy yes who obviously is projecting. His comments have nothing to do with the topic.
OP wasn't looking to divorce so why go that route? He wasn't talking about household chores, so his comments weren't relevant there plus us someone else mentioned these are pretty normal in well-functioning households. For all the ones that follow masculine youtubers, Jocko takes his daughter out to and asks her questions about life. You think he isn't spending 15 minutes quizzing spelling words with them when he's home? He was an English major. He would probably enjoy that time with his child once a week.
The pollical one is obviously something that can create discord. As I mentioned before, this is something worth addressing. It's not good to bring politics into the home.
I think either OP has fears about this passion career in some way or wants his own hobby. He should explore that rather than getting upset with his wife over minor issues with the kids at night. [/quote]

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