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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My dear friend made a conscious decision to move beyond the pain and come out the other side. She is trying to enjoy life despite it and is surprisingly succeeding with her DH making major life changes. He was terrified and ashamed and now she says they appreciate what was almost lost. She’s amazing and has always seen life more in shades than me. Her DH doesn’t deserve her. I hate him now. [/quote] You are your “dear friend,” and you will never get over it. Nor should you. Someone who had any respect for you wouldn’t have a long term affair, but he did, and you pretend to look past it because he pretends to have made major internal changes and pretends to laud you as amazing. Much like you pretend here that he was “terrified” about what he almost “lost.” Hard to lose a lump that’s scared of leaving. [/quote]
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