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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Never.

You live on the brink, essentially. You catch your cheater spouse in a white lie, you're immediately back to that dark D-Day place. Because if they're lying about whether or not they picked up the dry cleaning, what else are they lying about? Doesn't matter how much work they've allegedly done on themselves, you can't relax. [/quote]

Right. You never know what is true and what isn’t. Also, there was a lot of “I don’t know, I can’t remember” when it came to answering questions about how/why certain things happened. It’s hard to believe someone can’t remember such emotional things, so I always feel that he is deliberately not telling me things. 
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I am not saying your husband doesn’t remember, he well may and is trying to squirm out of uncomfortable conversations - but do consider the possibility that he does not remember. Men are very good at compartmentalizing and are unlikely to have attached much emotional weight to their clandestine meetings. If you want to talk to someone who absolutely does remember in technicolor detail, you would have to speak with his AP.[/quote]

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