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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Complaining and yelling about the referees is actually the most acceptable behavior across youth sports or professional sports, even if referee is correct.

For youth soccer referees got paid but the level does not match to the pay.

reasons/benefits of yelling to referees

1: referees are not qualified
2: you are not taking about your team/kid or other team/kid
3: you are not coaching
4: you have a good time to let it out

when you talk with your kid at the end of the game, "you had a good game, the ref sucks", your kid would be very happy.
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Blaming the ref is a loser move. [/quote]

It’s bad for kids too.

We always tell our kids stop with that BS.  Focus on what you did.  Stop placing blame on everything else- the weather, the ref, blah blah blah.  There are bad calls so what. You can’t control that, move on.

I also frickin despise parents shouting at refs.  They sound and look like a bunch of idiots.[/quote]

Agree 1000%. I shut my kids down when they start that crap.[/quote]

I remember watching a Bethesda second team. The players, their coach, and the parents were complaining about everything in the game, and the ref had to tell the parents to be quiet at one point. They lost pretty badly.  And then afterwards, we heard the parents tell their kids that the other team sucked, they were the better team, and the referee was terrible. But zero feedback abt them not being able to focus and keep their head in the game.

Poor coaching too. No idea what the coach was saying to them but when your players are easily rattled by things they cannot control or can’t move past calls that aren’t favorable to them, what does that say about the coaching?  I suppose that’s why they were a B team. [/quote]

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