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[quote=Anonymous]Stop engaging. Just stop. Tell her you love her but are taking a step back from all this communication due to her inability to respect your stated needs/boundaries. It's not that hard- just don't answer her texts or calls. Send her a brief two or three line update every week. Seriously. This is a really enmeshed situation for your age. Unless she has dealt with your issue all your life and has been the one to pick up the pieces for you every time (so she is trying to conserve her resources to bail you out- therefore needs to be in the know), she really DOESN'T need to know it all. You are not helping her or your anxiety.[/quote]
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