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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How long have you been dating?
How did you talk about this with your son prior to the meeting? [/quote]

We’ve been dating for almost two years. I told him that a friend would like come with us to the playground and asked if he was up for it. He said yes. We spent about an hour at the playground and it was a complete disaster! [/quote]

This was a terrible way to handle it as others have said.

Candidly, and I mean this in the nicest way possible, you seem to prioritize your love life over your son.  7 year olds aren’t idiots and you treated him like an idiot with this “friend” charade.

Next time maybe tell your son you want him to meet someone that is special to you, he needs to be respectful and kind - and go to brunch or something.  A playground?  You basically invaded your sons space with your sexual relationship.  Go somewhere neutral if you’re going to disclose that for 2 years you’ve been getting plowed by someone who’s not his dad and BTW because now you’re taking this big step, this kid is about to have a new daddy that he seems to have equal say in as his original dad.

Why are you even doing this though?  It doesn’t seem like you have a good grasp of this stuff if you’re trying to set up some weird rom-com scenario at the playground.  Your relationship with your child is a priority and the undertones from your posts are you’re concerned about losing this guy not that you f’ed things up with your son.  [/quote]

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