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[quote=Anonymous]I had mine at 38, 40, and 45 (surprise). First two were ivf third was natural. No donor egg so can’t speak to that. Am I tired? Hell yes! Kids are insane amounts of work. The mental load is huge you never have time for yourself. And we got so spoiled in our thirties sleeping and eating and basically doing whatever whenever we wanted. So yes, it’s a big lifestyle adjustment (not to mention financial hit!) But our lives feel infinitely more meaningful to us now, and we wouldn’t trade them for more freedom or resources. We had our fun in our thirties, so we were ready to buckle up in a minivan, give up our city life, and head to an exurb chick FIL a for our little ones’ joy (man I’m sick of that place.) Can you do it? Of course. Many of our grandparents had 5-7 kids well into their forties. Do you want to do it? Only you can decide that. The special needs forum is certainly sobering, but life is full of risks. Toughest job you’ll ever love. [/quote]
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