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[quote=Anonymous]Do you get alone with ILs, generally speaking? If no, I don’t blame you for not wanting them around if DH may not be home. If they are nice and you get along, it would be a nice gesture to invite them for a shorter visit for coffee and dessert or similar - just have a defined start and end time so it doesn’t suck up the whole day. (Have them leave at kids nap time- “oh it has been such an exciting day, Larlo and Larlo were up early and will need quiet time to settle down and rest” Kids are only little for so long, and it isn’t a big time commitment. My ILs dislike me-it stinks…I would never have them here if DH was not home. If I had relatively nice ILs, I’d like to think I would be appreciative and willing to make this small gesture. [/quote]
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