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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don’t have to leave or make any decisions now. I personally think divorce if you love him will make you worse off and more unhappy. Don’t divorce to “teach someone a lesson”—only you will end up hurt. [/quote]

This is absolute worse and wrong advice to give. Terrible. [/quote]

Disagree. I think it's fine advice. My main issue with leaving my cheating ex was that the was stealing money, being mean as a means to excuse his cheating, and sleeping with many different people thus exposing me to STD's and STI's. It was total chaos in the home because I didn't know what I was dealing with from day to day. He had also become a completely different person into new activities and even a different religion than when we married. I didn't know him anymore. Although my home is more predictable, I've just swapped one set of problems now for another set. If our marriage was intact other than cheating and he just had this other relationship that he used for sex and I loved my husband and he still showed me love, I would absolutely have stayed as long as possible. Especially with kids.[/quote]

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