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[quote=Anonymous]Does he know? My husband had an affair midlife.  No strings thing he went online to look for during his complete midlife crisis.

I get it.  As angry and rageful and pissed, I still loved him.  However, I do not tolerate cheating. I threw him out of the house. He had confessed and was already in therapy and doing everything to prove he was worthy, etc.

Things are great now, but this was a one chance thing. He knows that. Everything is in place so if it were to happen again our marriage would be over. I researched everything.  Finances are in order, pre-nup. He also got a vasectomy.

There are just way too many risks to you to live this way.  We were still having sex so I was irate about the risk to my health this imposed.  I am sure your self esteem is down now, but you don’t deserve this.  You can love someone and still have boundaries.  And sometimes you can love them, but their behavior (drug or alcohol addiction, cheating, etc) makes it that you can’t have them as a spouse.

Therapy for yourself.  But- first— confront him! Have you? I’m sorry this is happening to you.[/quote]

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