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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]to PP--visitation during holidays, vacations and birthdays. Also include childcare costs as well as what would trigger a re-negotiation of terms and how it would be handled. The idea is that you don't want him dragging you to court every time he wants to change a minor thing. This also protects him as well from you doing the same. Not sure if you'll get cost of living increases. The assumption is that both of your salaries will continue to increase over time. You may just need to lock into a monthly payment. [/quote] Thanks! To the Op, I feel your pain! My STBex has NPD too. And you are SO right when you say they want to "punish" you for leaving them. The rejection is unbearable for someone with NPD. I think the courts recognize bully behavior when they see it. My attorney commented that one of STBex's court pleading screamed "angry bully" when he read it. FWIW I wouldn't detail an agreement down to time frames for replying to emails. Let him try hauling you back into court for every little thing, the judge will get sick of him and order him to pay your attorney's fees. That'll put an end to that crap! [/quote]
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