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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Freeze your eggs. Get an individual therapist. Start your individual therapy to help you decide/plan what you want and how to communicate it.

I would let him know that you have frozen your eggs, that you have always been really clear that you want to have kids, that you are grateful he has shared his worries and thoughts with you, and that you will be taking the next 6 months or so to think about your own needs and choices.

FWIW, I would also see an attorney to understand about how to file for divorce, costs, asset split, etc.  If you end the relationship because he decided that he now doesn’t want kids, I would ask him to agree to your divorce settlement offer so as to minimize legal costs.

I would also see a financial advisor and start thinking about getting yourself in a financial position to afford being a single Mom if that is something you would consider several years down tbe road if you are not able to re-partner. [/quote]

This is all really good advice.

I'm sorry OP.

Him getting all emo seems manipulative to me. [/quote]

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