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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish we wouldn't be so hard on people who are not 100% on board with having children. It is a big decision and an even bigger commitment! Not everyone is like OP and wanted to be parents their whole lives. Her husband's willingness to communicate with her about his doubts and fears is a good thing - shows that he's honest and not afraid of being vulnerable.

I'm in my early 30s as well and share many of his misgivings. I would be devastated if instead of talking these through, my DH issues ultimatums and makes me feel bad.[/quote]

No one here is being hard on people who don't want to have kids. They are being hard on a guy who dated and married a woman who was up front about wanting kids while saying he wanted kids himself only to back out when she's married in her 30s.

I think the responses would be different if it seemed like he was trying to get to a yes, whereas instead it just seems like he's decided he doesn't want them. Guys SHOULD be more honest with themselves earlier because this timing is very difficult for OP to overcome and was really unfair. [/quote]

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