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Reply to "NY Times on new application essays dabbling in so-called "identities""
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]T[b]he people opposed to this only do so because they think race or gender are the only way people identify and they are afraid that being white and cis may hamper their kid's college app.[/b] But it is BS because there are so many ways your identity is defined. Physically, racially, culturally. My husband wrote his essay on being an only child. When I read the question from the article, “Tell us about an aspect of your identity or a life experience that has shaped you," I immediately thought of how much of my life has been shaped by my physical disability (missing a limb). In fact, I wrote about this in my college app essay in 1994. Sorry if it offends you that I was shaped by this, and that I shouldn't have written about it. I know some of you want to believe or downplay the experiences of others as cashing in on "trauma," but you are so far off the mark. [/quote] Yup. As always, the people who claim not to want to talk or think about race and gender can’t help but show that they are actually obsessed with it. [/quote] white/hetero/athletic/intelligent male: People look at me and before they know anything about me or my background they think: 'toxic masculinity', 'privilege', 'racist', 'misogynist', 'homophobic', etc. They see the root cause of all that is wrong with society these days apparently. I am a walking billboard for them to direct their hate. [/quote]
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