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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] My Fiance has been acting cold and distant for a few weeks and has started making everything in our relationship about his needs while minimizing my needs. Long story short [b]I have figured out that he has a dismissive avoidant personality type and has been inflicting emotional abuse that is typical of dismissive avoidant personality types upon me.[/b] ... Has anyone else had their "Dismissive Avoidant" partner announce while in a long term relationship that they are done and want you to move out? I'm just trying to figure out what my next steps should be from here.[/quote] You "figured it out"? Are you a psychologist or psychiatrist? Sigh. At any rate this is your next step: focus on doing whatever you need to do to protect the welfare of your children who are caught in the crossfire of this nonsense. [/quote] He’s probably having an affair. [/quote] Yep, or isn't having an affair but is done with the relationship and has been too big a coward to talk about it like a decent man would do, so instead he dropped a bombshell. But that's all moot now, as OP is done too. OP, don't go anywhere, you own the house together and he can't just order you and your children to leave it. Get an attorney yesterday. [/quote] No it is not that. He probably figured out he is gay.[/quote]
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