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[quote=Anonymous]This is emotional abuse. What would you do if anyone else texted you a picture of your dirty plate? Most likely you'd tell them to put it away themselves. The fact that you aren't doing so, shows that fear of his anger is making you change how things should be done. Your DH might be right to complain if you were lazy (when I first got married, DH would ALWAYS put dirty dishes in the sink instead of straight into the dishwasher. We had a polite conversation and he stopped doing a chore halfway and put the dishes where they belonged), but you were busy taking the kid to an all day activity. He should be grateful you were spending time with his child and should put the plate in the dishwasher himself. So yes, you either need counseling/long discussions or divorce. I'm sure there are lots of other situations where you and your child do things differently for fear of getting him angry. [/quote]
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