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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes we had a lot of extenuating circumstances and completely disconnected which led to N emotional affair. Separated, got lawyers involved, saw how it messed up the kids. Dated each other again, realized we never stopped loving each other we just got smacked down by life, realized what we had to lose, tried some counseling and decided to overcome our childhood traumas and learn to communicate and be emotionally connected in ways we had never done before. Got back together and had one more baby and we are very loving and appreciative of what each other brings to the table and let the small stuff slide.[/quote] I'm happy for you. We're dealing with an emotional affair and lack of overall intimacy, and I just don't see the light at the end of the tunnel. But we have a child and we genuinely care for each other. I just feel as though it may never be enough.[/quote] I’m so sorry. The first year can be absolute hell. Try to keep talking it through and focusing on any ways that you can reconnect. The very first spark for us was going on a preschool field trip with our preschool daughter together even though we were separated. Look your best, be kind and thankful, and things can improve from there slowly.[/quote]
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