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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What a drama queen he is. Like 50% of people have HPV. He probably does too we just don't test men and they don't often show symptoms.

There's nothing to be ashamed of. Let him consult his doctor or whatever. If he reaches out again ignore him and move on. [/quote]

Op—yeah, this is what makes me feel bad—if I have it, he must have it too. Yet I feel like he’s treating me like a leper.[/quote]

Is there a way he could have asked for time to see a doctor without you feeling badly? It feels like such a loaded sensitive topic that I cannot imagine a situation where it wouldn’t have stung. So I guess the issue is; is it ok that he asked for time? [/quote]

OP here—oh it’s fine and I understand him asking for time and wanting to consult a doc as it’s his body and his choice and all…

But I feel hurt and damaged and diseased when he must have it too if I have it! Why is he treating *me* like a leper and refusing to even see me at all? That’s why I wonder if he’s trying to totally break it off with me and can’t outright say it. [/quote]

But isn’t that what a doctor will tell him? Do you think he knows he has it too?[/quote]

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