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[quote=Anonymous]This is so difficult. Your FIL still is cogitively capable so all you do is share your concerns with him and why you think AL with a memory care unit would be better. We got aging professionals involved too. In the end mom is still refusing residential and sister has tapped right into the very large well of money. Knowing my sister she will wait until things are very bad and try to dump the issues on me, but it will be on her. We were willing to help move mom when she was in decent shape. The thing is we see a leech taking advantage and they see a loving child. Your parents may enjoy being out in the country. It may go horribly wrong, but they are still allowed to make terrible choices while cognitively able. Just make your boundaries clear to sibling. You are not bailing her out and they are responsible for care from now on if they chose this route.[/quote]
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