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[quote=Anonymous]Do the kids still get along? If so then I would try not to make things hostile or too uncomfortable and try to keep some sort of relationship. But you can reduce the frequency or intensity. During the actual conversation, if it’s too one-sided and too much to hear, try to sound less enthusiastic. “Hmmm” “I see”. Or just nod a bit in response. Don’t ask follow up questions. Try to change the topic to something neutral or ask about something you want the answer to - what summer camps are you considering this year? Also dilute the interaction - have 1-2 additional people at the outing. Reduce the frequency if needed. Finally check to see if it’s you who’s hesitant to share personal information. Some people talk to fill in space and they know themselves best so they talk about themselves and sound like they’re bragging. Maybe they’re not sure you want to answer personal questions so they don’t ask.[/quote]
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