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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can have this debate but I warn you, your kid might just wear a big sweatshirt with a crop top underneath [/quote] NP-I did this too but with short skirts. I just changed at school. But honestly, I think it's better to not cave and set a boundary even if you know it's likely that they will sneak around it. IF it's really a hill you want to die on, that is. You could also just not buy the crop tops at all or let her know that will be the consequence if she breaks the rule. I have a couple of rules around leggings with my daughter and a couple around certain clothing items with my son as well (no, you cannot wear your favorite shirt with the giant hole in it to school). They don't like my rules but that's ok, they don't have to. I supervise about 20 people and yesterday, [b]one of the women came it wearing pants that seriously looked like they should be a bathing suit cover up. You could see her underwear perfectly. This is a public-facing position and I was so embarrassed for her and for our agency.[/b] There is nothing wrong with boundaries and teaching what is appropriate/not appropriate in certain settings![/quote] This is such a sticky line. Were you able to say anything? I'm sure it's an HR violation to address it in the moment. I'm not sure what I would do. [/quote]
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