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[quote=Anonymous]I stopped traveling for work once I had kids. It was too hard and stressful on our family, but I also breastfed for a while, had issues with oversupply and mastitis, and my kids have difficult temperaments. My DH travels for work as well and he scaled back a lot to reduce his work trips. Taking care of two little kids solo and working while one parent travels is a massive challenge for us, and it really takes it all out of me when he is gone. Unpopular but I personally have had to scale back my professional life to accommodate the needs of my family. If I had more money, extended family support, and kids who weren’t so difficult and did not have special needs, I maybe would not have had to. But every family is different. Personally my dad traveled a ton internationally when I was a small child (sometimes bringing my mom with him and leaving us with overnight sitters for multiple nights) and it was very hard on me, I missed him terribly and when they both traveled I was always worried about them dying in a plane crazy and car accident. I had separation anxiety and it was exacerbated by the work travel. So anyways, just saying that you have to adapt to what you are comfortable with and your family needs. [/quote]
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