Reply to Lying about Divorce

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Lying about Divorce"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She’ll drop you as soon as she’s officially divorced. Happened to me just recently (I even posted a thread here about a partner who omitted telling he was finalizing his divorce). I heard men saying it happened to them, too. Which is why nobody wants to date separated people [/quote]

Forgot to add his divorce was bitter in court and he was not telling me any of that. He dropped me 3 weeks after it was final [/quote]

What's the psychology behind this, I don't understand?

I can understand BEING dumped when your divorce is made final by someone who is afraid of committment.[/quote]

The psychology behind it is very complex: he projected many things from what his exW did to me; he probably was just in the beginning of his dating spree, but represented it to me like he dated for couple years  and I didn’t want to be someone’s “post divorce trial”; he was also set in ways, super sensitive and inflexible. Many factors that I would have taken into consideration, before having second with him, if I had known where he was in that process. Maybe I wouldn’t be too pushy with things knowing his stage in life as well. [/quote]

Sorry for typos - I would have taken into consideration before having sex with him, I meant. [/quote]

All if that had nothing to do with the fact that he wasn't fully divorced on paper but it does with the fact that he wasn't ready and healed from his marriage. He couldn't have been a year or two out from the divorce being final and still not ready to date you.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics