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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here, This is a friend who frequently is rude to me and says hurtful things. I usually call her out on it. So when she’s telling me that someone else is sad/angry/hurt because of what she said, part of me wants to be like “well you DO do that”. [/quote] Then your issue is not what she did to another friend. It's that you think she's rude to YOU and this is just re-enforcing that perception. So you don't validate her behavior or lecture her about what she did in this other situation. You set proper boundaries in your relationship and if she cannot stop being rude and hurtful to you, you withdraw from the friendship. Why would you want to be friends with someone who is rude and hurtful to you?[/quote]
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