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[quote=Anonymous]You have a husband problem not a time problem. Couple of suggestions: 1. If DH is mostly working from home he can use his lunch or work breaks to help clean up the house. Also, he doesn’t need to be working from home to make the grocery orders, it’s literally something he can do from anywhere. 2. You sound like a married single mom and are literally getting no substantial kid free time except when you’re at work. Pick two nights a week and go out. There is plenty of free stuff to do, hell you can go sit inside a mall and scroll on your phone, it doesn’t have to be fancy. 3. Even if working full time would basically make your salary a wash right now because of childcare costs, weigh the benefits for your mental health and how it would force DH into better balance as a partner. Don’t discount the time paying into retirement either. Even if you bring home another $200 after childcare and retirement contributions, there are a lot of reasons why that’s a benefit. Especially if you end up divorced. 4. Marinated chicken thighs can be cooked a thousand ways as part of a one pot, one sheet meal. Taco Tuesday. Wing Wednesday. Spaghetti Thursday. Pita bread pizza Friday. Soup Saturday. All things kids will eat, cheap, and easy to make and clean. This will also simplify grocery orders. If DH wants something fancy, he can cook, clean, and shop to make it happen. Is there a dollar store near you? Great for cheap easy craft projects for kids. I second parking kids in front of educational TV and taking a break for yourself. At that age, the house is going to be a mess sometimes. [/quote]
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