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[quote=Anonymous]Take the high road and just focus on your relationship with your mom. It's a labor of love. No need to nickel and dime everything and send your sibling an invoice. That's petty and you have no recourse (especially since you don't "have" to do it albeit it's a loving gesture). Your sister might be in denial. It could also be an out-of-sight/out-of mind type thing. Also a mix of her staying busy/staying in daily routine/time consuming extracurricular activity is her way of coping. She wants to keep in her mind the memory of mom pre-Alzeihmer. She might also feel guilty and embarrassed she hasn't been involved thus far. And I'm betting she hates being told by you what she should do. [/quote]
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