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[quote=Anonymous][quote] My sister might write this. Here’s the thing - she’s inefficient, histrionic and handles things completely differently than I would. Sister doesn’t know this but early on I let my mother know if I was not the ultimate decision-maker where I could choose to consult with sister where I felt appropriate, I would not be involved with my mother’s care. I’d happily pay for and handle 100 percent in that instance. My mom never put the paperwork in place. So that’s that and now it’s their problem. I’ll visit and I’m nice, but I don’t do a damn thing when it comes to elder care.[/quote] Honestly I think this makes you a bad person. Just going to say it. “Boundaries” is just bullshit for self centered control. You can agree to take on stuff YOUR way and still help your sister. [/quote]
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