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[quote=Anonymous]You say they want to get together with you. That's great! I think you should go. Have you heard the phrase "never compare your insides to others' outsides"? You don't know the details of all their lives and they're most likely not as perfect as you think they are. But even if they are, you have a shared past together that could be fun to revisit. Another way to think about it. You feel really bad about this right now. You could go and be pleasantly surprised at how it wasn't so bad, maybe even good. Or you could go, it could be not great, and then poof, you don't need to worry about it any more. But if you don't go at all, you'll still be feeling bad and maybe wondering if you missed out. You'll have passed over a chance to be brave and each time we practice being brave we get better at it. I have some social anxiety, and "When in doubt, go" works out for the best 90% of the time. [/quote]
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