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[quote=Anonymous]OP, the partial view didn’t ruin your evening. You did. You said you weren’t outwardly mad, only quiet,but you were probably stewing and tense and not pleasant tone with. You need to change your attitude and learn to be resilient. I have a similar role as your husband’s in my own marriage dynamic and it can be exhausting. While he probably could’ve said that he understands your disappointment and hopes you can still enjoy the evening, he doesn’t need to be upset too or act like you’re in the same team. He has to work harder to compensate for your high expectations and disappointment. I also agree with the PPs who say you should lower your expectations and practice gratitude. And also if you don’t have a lot of money, don’t spend it on expensive things you can’t afford or will make you miserable if they aren’t perfect. [/quote]
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