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Reply to "Husband is not there for me in my grief "
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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you have had a very privileged life overall and haven't had to deal with much adversity. There are plenty of women your age who haven't married, can't find the right person, and don't have kids. You chose to be an academic, and so did your husband. You both decided to wait, even if it was more of his choice. You can still change things around and have a child. And if a child doesn't happen, then you have to decide what you want to do. But your husband feels attacked and inadequate if you blame everything on him. You both made choices in life. Agreed with go to therapy on your own, and marriage counseling as well. You might be drowning in your grief so much that you drive others away, and you have to be able to deal with these emotions so you can be present and try to think of what is going well in your life so you can move forward.[/quote]
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